One of my guy friends has been complaining that one of his best female friends won’t let him hang out with her and her friends anymore. The reason - he keeps hooking up with her friends and she has to deal with the fall out when the girls learn that it was just a hook up, not a relationship.
As any girl can tell you the fall out in these types of situations can be highly toxic: friendships have been lost, trust broken. The list is very long and it contains things like – fights between friends, friends complaining that he doesn’t like “her” anymore, hook-up girl not wanting boy to hang out with female friend who introduced them, blah - blah - blah. The list is much longer and highly complicated. We girls are tricky creatures.
This story is a complete déjà vu for me, for years I was caught up in its ugly cycle. I’m so glad I’m no longer a part of such a mess.
Guys can be such dillholes.
CW
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